That sounds good actually angelique. I love broccoli and brownies.
Tony, I am just like you. They all are shocked when I do speak out against them, but I just keep doing it. I just cowered trying to get my sister to put down the weapons!
Today it all just hit me like a rock. I talked to my son again for a minute, when he heard more drama, he just didn't call back. Cannot say I blame him, but I am about to say F*** it all, cook my own delicious food and stay the F*** home. If someone wants to come get a plate, they can!!! Freaking holidays!
The kicker is that I did call my dad and tell him the truth and he just kept saying that he just could not believe that my sister said those things to me. Said the two of us should try harder to get along and it makes him sad. Boom! That sounds like a guilt trip plus I don't believe a word you say. Fine, whatever. I told him that I certainly did not imagine it, she is misrepresenting the facts to him which is not fair and puts me in a difficult situation. I am not surprised, this is sort of what my family is like historically. I am the scapegoat, I imagine all kinds of hurt and basically all disharmony is my fault. Lovely!
Looks like dinner for one!