hi gracy
it is going to take a while to rebuild trust in the relationship. he gets credit for trying and giving up what he is but by cold turkeying it doesn't really address the issues. he/you should go to counseling to address the need for the things in the first place. otherwise the temptation will always be there. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome