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Originally Posted by BeBrave483
I'm sorry that happened stbguy. I know you won't believe it but she doesn't deserve you if she acted that way just because you had feelings for her.
I haven't been tested for aspergers but I already have enough mental illness' without adding another one.
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The thing is, I don't think of it like that. For me it was never about who deserves who or she is too good for me or I'm too good for her. Everyone has flaws. Sometimes you love someone no matter how imperfect or messed up they are.
About the MH issues - sometimes there is one that can be identified as a root cause for all the rest, so it's worth finding out sometimes. Having Asperger's is what gave me depression, OCD, Avoidant PD and all the rest. Without that diagnosis, I would have 4 or 5 mental illnesses. Having the diagnosis of ASD kind of puts them all into perspective and shows you that it's actually one big one, and 4 little ones sprouting from it.