My opinion, YOU MUST STOP! You certainly are obsessing, and this is not at all good for you personally, or if others find out. I'd cut it out. If this is normal, it should not be. You need to talk to your psychiatrist all about this, and not hide anything if you want good help solving this problem. I'd say resist to the highest degree to stop going on line to see her face book and any other place she can be found. I'd destroy the fake face book as well. This can only get worse for you if you continue.

You know in your own mind this can only bring you more wild ideas, stress, guilt, feeling unsecured, and who knows what else. Your mind will be flooded with things that have no way of making you happier. You have too many questions, and you will not be getting the answers from her.

If you and your husband continue to have problems, it will take the both of you together wanting to seek out professional help.