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Old May 15, 2007, 08:35 AM
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Hopefull said:
I don't know how to do that where you have the questions on there and respond to them.

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Do you know how to cut and paste, Hopefull? That will work, taking out the other person's responses and putting in your own or retyping; do you know the person before you or that you're responding to, their response is below your post box? :-) My response is a little different too, like yours, so I think I'll do paragraph style. I think changing T's like you have is a bit hard; did you miss the school one or one before this one? Do you like your current T pretty well?

I started with school therapy too, in 1970 and when I graduated I was in various "City" (I lived in Washington, D.C.) programs and things so didn't really get a steady T until 1976 or so and that first steady T was a "student" and not that good a T I finally figured out. But I finally finally got my good T in about 1978 and only terminated with her in 1987 because I was moving over an hour away and changing jobs, etc.

I got married in 1989, another reason for moving was I'd met my husband, my boyfriend at the time, and life was improving fast and furiously :-) and I was moving out across the parking lot from his apartment. But that was all good until my father died in 1992 (which was sad but okay) but then my stepmother started getting very senile and the "breakup" of the family as I'd always "known"/remembered it and my stepsister and her family not including me anymore (they had when my father had been alive) and weird stuff happening gradually made things inside of me break up so I found and called my old T again in February 1996 and started with her again until July 2005.

So, I had 9 years with her, then 9 years without her, then 9 years with her. I teased her as we were terminating this time (she was retiring and I was moving and retiring too) that in 2014 (9 years from 2005) I'm going to enter therapy again, I think Jungian analysis this time LOL -- I will be 64 then.
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