HI Lonely Hearts, it's me (Wil) again. I don't know if this will be of any help to you. When I was in college, it seemed like from what I saw, there were women that were not attractive and had a boyfriend. Much to my surprise those unattractive women (and they were not friendly, either) had pretty good looking guys to go out with.

It seemed like every girl was taken at that time, and there were quite a few guys complaining on how hard it was to get an available woman. I notice that you put on your little profile that you are in Arizona. I would think that there would be more men than women there. I could be wrong.

I am with Clara as to what she asked you. However, there is another suggestion I have. Have you ever thought of gently approaching a guy? And if you like him, would you ever ask him out (just for something small like coffee or sit together in the cafeteria)? Very often I would suggest to a woman that I care about (that's me being just friends with them) to try asking a guy out if there's one she likes. Just a thought.