I don't understand he is still married and wants to marry you and he cheated on you ?
What is the rush in marriage clearly this guys is a jumper and he will jump to the next woman just like he is doing to his ex wife .

If this is what you want for your future then your going to be hurt and very unhappy but non of us can make you see this you have to see this on your own .

What dose your family feel about this guy ?
I am sure they are upset as they can not see you if your a stay at home mom and not working to be able to take a trip .

This just seems like a death trap do you not see it ?