Mr. Peter A,
I feel the need to respectively point out, I find you have great misunderstandings, with the way you see your responsibilities concerning these women. What their job has, or had, to do with you has nothing to do with making a relationship other than their job performance. I feel confident they found it very difficult to perform the job they were there for. To "talk silly" about someone on face book does not sound too cool to me. I'm at a loss why she/they did not put a block on you there. What ever all this was/is about - "you can't always get what you want."