This situation seems to happen more and more often with Social media and bumping into people from all over the world. I mean in many ways its great , I have friends all over the world that I would have never met otherwise. But it comes with possible complications of course.

Its often easy to talk to people because hey ! chances are you wont ever meet them so why not just be YOU .

After reading your Thread I think you just wanted more than he did , maybe he was seeing a bunch of girls? he would flake on your for some days? leaving you hanging and waiting, But he did tell you he felt like he was being smothered ... that is a huge deal. At least he did tell you how he felt. So you really do know a little "why" he did what he has done, at least something to consider.

I understand your hurt,pain and confusion .. its a normal response. You put yourself out there and he wasn't wanting to get involved. I do think its wise that you and him don't talk. Its hard to get over being "turned down" so why torture yourself by staying in contact ? Blocking his Facebook was the smartest thing to do.

Allow yourself to grieve this loss and reflect on your actions and feelings towards him and how maybe in the future you will not invest so much of yourself into a relationship with someone you have not met or even spent much time someone.. It takes time to know a person in "real life"

Im sorry this has happened to you... I always look at a break up good or bad , You can always learn something from it, to help you with your next relationship.

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