This. Does it seem odd to anyone else that a mother would say to a child they will end up lying about abuse for attention? Like downplaying her actions while gaslighting the child into keeping them a secret so as to say "nobody will believe you if you tell."

OP please take heart, you can talk to your T about this. Doesn't matter if we all think what you're doing isn't such a big deal, you are upset by it. Take some pocket-riders with you to session if you need to.