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Old Nov 28, 2014, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by StbGuy View Post
That is exactly what I will become if I begin to be like that. I am naturally not like that, and I don't think one should go against your very nature, no matter how screwed up it is. I've tried that and it doesn't work. A "fraud" can spot another "fraud" very easily and you'll just be ridiculed again.
Any change you make is going to feel fake though. Your personality is a product of what you think about yourself, not a representation of who you are. Thus, if you want to make a change you have to do somethings that feel fake until you make it a part of who you are.
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