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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
She is angry. Not the same as true suffering. Nor do I belive her suffering allows her to emotionally or physically harm others. "Oh poor you" responses are inappropriate in this context and can cause people to act on their violent fantasies. I know that beyond any doubt because I have been on the receiving end of it. My mother would get responses like some of you are giving the op and then she thinks she is somehow right or justified or her thoughts are fine and safe. Once she was told her feelings and thoughts were fine and understandable, she kept ramping herself up from there.
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If you know more about OP, from other interactions on the forum, then perhaps you know better. I was only reacting to the posts in this thread. What I perceived from the posts was a very strong level of anger and also great paranoia and tremendous fear in OP's posts! Initially I felt she was just sharing a fantasy but when I looked at her other posts, I felt it was more. If you feel that people are trying to kill you and hurt you, how could you not be afraid, how could you not suffer? You would suffer greatly!
I don't mean to be completely critical of your two posts here. You were reacting to possibility of physical harm happening to her children. Which would also, indirectly, lead to negative consequences for the OP legally or emotionally. It was very important to mention that and to make sure OP is self aware. I just tried to offer what I saw as lacking in the thread. Which was people seeing OP as human and suffering, and expressing that to her. She had said she knows her family love her but she doesn't feel it. It made me sad to read that.