I replied to a similar thread you made about this a few weeks ago and while I won’t put down people that choose to have these relationships but at the age of 45 the bloke is old enough to be the Father of the 20 year old and is basically a cradle snatcher in my opinion.

Before my Father-in-Law passed away in 2009 he went through a major midlife crisis and was dating women younger than my Wife and it was disturbing to say the least especially when one of them was her childhood best friend.