Nature, it's not your fantasies that bother me here as much as what I perceive as your apparent lack of responsibility for yourself and your own emotions. For instance you blame your h for you eating the junk food that he buys. It is disrespectful of him to continue buying the food if you have asked him not to (unless he is just buying a small amount for himself, he is entitled to that), but you are responsible for eating it and for your own health.
Your h may have made you angry by not discussing buying the Xbox with you first, but you are responsible for that anger and the way you express it. It is your emotion, not his.


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