Nope - not really from a real-world logistical standpoint - cake food settings flowers music etc were all great and I was really happy with that outcome. Yes I could have done with less anxiety and worry over what so and so would think and a couple of times I said "why did I do this" but I go through it. Now I can look back and say those issues were questions of self confidence related to poor self image because of past events and labels and so forth and I really feel like I learned that I am in the drivers seat of my life a lot more than I thought I was.