Hmm I guess it's just a red flag to me, like hmm, do I want to be in a realship like this? Do I need to be patient longer? Would I be happy if things stayed the way they are? Nope.
And a lie is a lie no matter how small, & Facebook has never messed up for me before. It's too big a coincidence.

Thanks guys for providing your input & not making me feel dumb.