I had a partly similar experience as you when my T terminated me. You really don´t need to feel like a baby, many people who attend therapy have attachment and abandonment issues which you easily get reminded about in this kind of situation.

I really understand it´s very hard loosing a T because of such a reason as you describe but one thing you could perhaps be a bit grateful about is that she does send you to another T. I was terminated but also "put on the street", that is I now have to search for a new T all by myself.

I had a similar comment from my T, that I shouldn´t explore and analyse too much what went on in therapy. But that´s just who I am and perhaps who you are as well, you can´t "turn off your brain" to fit into therapy.

Even if it´s hard I would think about the situation out of the perspective that the current T in a way doesn´t allow you to progress or not progress in your own pace and therefore it´s better with another T. You still have all those feelings for her, I now mean within the therapeutic relationship, and I still cry and mourn over loosing my T.

But those feelings and an effective therapy is two different things I think, but still they have to go together, that is even if you have positive feelings the T also have to be competent enough to deal with your problems.

The thing I see, which I also saw in my own therapy is a kind of non proffessionality when it comes to that the T creates this bond with you, gives you several sessions and then terminates you. That of course triggers abandonment issues on a much larger scale than if she had realised she couldn´t work with you much sooner, before you got too attached to her.

As you feel you really want to continue with your current T I would bring the issue up once again to ensure myself about that it really depends upon her skills and nothing else. I say this because I was recommended another therapy form when terminated but I´m almost sure my termination had to do with the fact that my T took things personally and that she wanted clients that so to speak "followed her lead" all the time.