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Originally Posted by Hooligan
I'm sorry that your friend has treated you the way she has. This seems to have been going on for a while with some subtle signs.
I must say, I don't believe it was fair of her at all to not communicate with you regarding the agreement she had made with your cats. I can't really speculate what her intentions were as she does not appear to have communicated this to you either. Either way, that's a real let down.
I'm sorry your thanksgiving turned out the way it did. You were in a very difficult place. But family do forgive us.
There is no sense to be made of this senseless situation your friend has put you in and you may never know the answer.
Unless she initiates reaching out to you first next ... Then I'm not sure where the rest of your friendship would be heading.
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I think that she was doing the slow fade on me hoping that I'd get the hint for over a year now. Still, that is extremely immature and rude to do to someone for no apparent reason at all. And this is coming from a 50 something old woman!
I don't get why she couldn't just call or email me to say that she couldn't watch my cats after all. I would've understood and made alternative plans. To hell with her. The trust is no longer there. Unless she got into an accident, there is no excuse for this at all.
I seriously hope that her bad karma will come back to get her sooner or later. I did tell her that in my final v.m message to her. I'm just so glad that my "kids" are OK-
Thanksgiving wasn't a total loss. I shouldn't have let her get to me like she did.
My family did understand and forgive me btw-