((((jinny)))) I'm so sorry the meds are affecting you this way... and I'm glad you are giving them a good chance to help you, going through the side effects for the time being. You can also post in the drug forum and ask about the medication and how it's affecting you...maybe it goes away sooner rather than later? (You would need to say what med, what dose and how long you've been taking it, and when you take it during the day etc, I think, for someone with knowledge to help you there.)
Please know that it won't always be this way. Assure yourself and your husband that you are giving this a good try, even though no one likes the results yet. (It isn't like you choose to be this way!) Thank your spouse for helping you through this (and maybe it will encourage him to do better?)