I so feel for you with this. Any holiday is hard with food allergies. I have them too and it is annoying to have to be so mindful and careful of everything. I have gotten to where I like to prepare the meals myself so I know what goes in everything otherwise I end up eating like a bird picking at this and that. Doesn't always work out that way, so sometimes I just eat before I go, or I bring my own, or am sure to load up on allergy meds to help keep me safe, with my epi pen on hand as well. Do what you need to to stay safe and try to enjoy the festivities. (((((((AngstyLady)))))))