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Originally Posted by brainhi
Friendships are about give and take. But at times one of you might be more needy. What I learned to tell someone when I cannot not listen to it anymore - "What are you doing to make this better?" If they can talk about good things/actions we're on a better track if not - I usually let them go - sometimes they can be too emotionally draining.
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I am going to do just that next time this person begins to complain to the point that it is draining. Which will probably be very soon since it is almost every day. If I am lucky, I can go a day or so without hearing her complain but that is rare. But yeah, I will do just that.
