hi ashakattack
what you would want to research is the metaphysical world and energy attraction. when you are energetically linked with someone and thinking about them, they can pick up on this energy as well. like when the phone rings and you know who is on the other end because you sense their energy. this could explain the phenomenon you are describing. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome