It is not about them getting it and it is not about receiving an apology. It is not about blame.it is about releasing your pain and letting go.I sent my dad a 10 page letter telling him all the ways I was hurt and how that has impacted my life today.I then told him that I was no longer going to play the role of good daughter and I was out of his life for good. When I stepped out of that role of trying to please him I finally started to heal. He didn't get it he didn't apologize but he doesn't matter to me anymore. He has no power over me anymore.

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