just thinking here Patty, .... could it be therapists didn't really help you because perhaps you had the answers already, way in the back of your mind, as to how you were going to go about things?

Some people are just so lost they can't even see their own reflection if they look in the mirror-- ahem... that would be me! ..... I wasn't able to see what should be done or what is even happening sometimes ... severe clinical depression had me at a dangerously low body weight-- a depression I didn't know how to get out of on my own.

Perhaps you have that "healthy" sense about you-- guides you in the best directions......

I'm sure at the time though, it must have been frustrating to seek help and then only find that it's not help at all-- sorry it was that way for you.

Patty--

mandy