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Old Nov 30, 2014, 03:56 PM
georginow georginow is offline
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Originally Posted by elin95 View Post
Hey everyone

I'm Elin and I am 19 years old. I have no friends since 1,5 years.

I used to have 3 really amazing friends. They were amazing, we did fun things together and they were always available when I had problems. But we all went to another school and I got into deep depression so we lost all contact.

I really miss having friends. Besides my work and school, I'm always at home. I hear classmates talking about their friends and what a great time they have. I'm shy and not very easy to be friends with. I don't have the money to go on a sport or something. my classmates are fine, but I don't really connect to them. They are just different. I create fake friends in my head. So sad.

It's just hard to not have much fun and be able to talk about your problems with friends.

I'd love to hear your story of advice.

thanks.

Elin
I have had periods of time like this. When you have had "amazing friends ships" the casual friendships don't seem as satisfying. Some people you just click extra special with. I try to be grateful that I was able to have such great friendships, even if I had to let go of them. It can feel very lonely, so I try to just enjoy the company of acquaintances and not compare it to those special friendships.