My T has learned to slow himself down as he can be a bit impatient. He's apologized. He's started taking better notes to remember things (even quoting myself back at me... in the past year I think he's improved his note-taking a lot!) He doesn't always let me get away with "I don't know" as an answer, but sometimes he does if he senses I really just can't think of anything. He shares personal experiences. We talk about some people we both know. He'll point out the things that he's observed about me and the things I've done since knowing him. He laughs. He encourages me to email. He reminds me it's a safe place where I could cry if I wanted to. Things like that.