I agree with all this. My mom caused me to have these weird feelings, like I could never get out from under her wings. Probably doesn't make sense. I don't feel like going all into my mom right now. Then you can see my POST TITLE HERE - Do your children resent you? Sad to say my daughter did and does. She may be getting a bit better, but still. I caused it to roll over onto her. Yes I think you need to close some chapters and talk about your mom to a psychologist.