no it not a coping skill ..........it will lead to regret when she dies

ok doctors are like dogs with a bone once they get a idea in there head they got to crack it open and get the stuff in the middle out

the only way to stop this is something i picked up .............before u start that talk time
tell the doctor ok we are going to do the mom thing here are the rules
1 for ever how long we do this i want time credited to me ....when we get to the end of this rabbit hole and nothing changes the money i spent on the waste of time this is will be applied to area i wanted to work in

if this is not agreeable to u then stop bring up the mother thing because it is low on the list for me and i only have so many dimes ........otherwise i can leave u and go to another willing to help me on what i ask (every doctor is different methods and way of looking at things ....but if enough of the random ppl repeat the same idea might have some truth in it worth looking for )