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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
He was mad and told me that he will find another girl because Im sick if we had sex that rarely. He told me that he was too patient to wait for me and he cant wait anymore. He forced me to have sex with him and I did it just because hemade me feel that Im sick if I cant do this.
I feel disgusted. I feel hurted.
He needs sex and I know that if I am with him I must do this but I feel like Im doing a job.
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You feel like you are doing a job because it is exactly true.
Why would you want to do that job?
Are you being paid for it?
No, you are not.
Are you being at least verbally appreciated for it?
No, you are not.
So why are you doing this job? He is not into you. A man who is into you would not say: "Oh well you cannot do this job so I am onto another girl who can". Since he has said it, conclude that he is not into you that much and stop seeing him altogether.
Your body and mind are not stupid -
trust the signals that they are sending you! Your body is in
pain and your mind is telling you that sex with this guy is a
job and not a pleasurable activity. Take these two signals - pain and feeling that you are doing a job - as your truth, and act accordingly.