Hi cryingontheinside, I'm really sorry you're struggling so much right now
And I completely understand you must feel so weighed down. Brushing your hair sounds simple right?? And just a tiny fraction of what other people can easily do "day in day out", but sometimes it's far from that with depression isn't it
But just remember you may not have brushed your hair yesterday..........in the last week.......and maybe you won't manage it tomorrow.........next week........but that's alright it doesn't need to say that it you won't get there, bit by bit. And hey, some of the other stuff you can't do right now, well it can wait too, can't it?? No rush
The main thing to focus on is working through the depression to the point where you can begin to start doing some stuff, right?? Because it can ease/get easier. Might take time, help, support, medication, might take different things and hanging on in there until............
I know it really isn't easy for you, but in amongst it all why not keep hanging with us, hey?? Because we understand we "get it" and we're here to support you.........and I'll tell you what, we don't care if you've brushed your hair or not, we're going to value you just as much so let's work through/on it together, yes?
And if you want to talk more................

Alison