you can feel something is morally wrong all by yourself, without putting someone else down with judgement... which happens to be an example of morally wrong behavior itself.

pinksoil is, on this day, about to begin a new an important part of her life and her profession and she posted about being nervous about that and deserves our support.

adding "imo" to a judgement or put-down doesn't erase the sting from it or make it okay.

let's be supportive as we discuss and not pathologically judgemental, k?