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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
Do you feel like hugs are something sexual with your T and with anyone else?
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No, I don't feel like hugs, in and of themselves are sexual. They may or may not be depending on what kind of a relationship or mutual feelings are between you and the one you are hugging.
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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
Is it possible to hug attractive person and not to feel it sexual?
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Absolutely. It's definitely possible for me.

I don't get sexually attracted to someone just because they are physically attractive. It would take much more than looks for someone to get me interested in them. I never get attracted to dumb or spiritually undeveloped people no matter how attractive they may look.
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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
Is it okay to hug with T if someone feels this way?
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You mean, if you feel sexually attracted to T? If that's the case, I'd say it's a good idea not to act on your impulses unless you want to turn therapy into something else.