Eventually aprons springs must be cut. Moms often have hard times doing it themselves. You need to take control of YOUR life.

Finances are always going to be an issue about moving out on your own and her having her own, but there is no other choice if you want to have a social life and fall in love and want to start your own relationships and/or a marriage.

Does your mother work? have friends? hobbies? . If she has only "you" then that has to change because " you" can't be there for her 24/7 on a relationship of all levels.

It's always best to have a sit down and talk face to face about things with her, If shes just not receptive to that type of communication, then you just need to get really busy with your life and just not engage in heated discussions with her. Just walk away. Respect goes both ways, If shes not able to respect you , well then you can and should walk away.

Maybe she would do well to see a Therapist to help her work out her feelings about this entire mess.

Don't allow her to dictate who you see and what your doing.

Take control of you life.

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