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Old Dec 02, 2014, 05:24 PM
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I am in a one year masters program. I am a bisexual female, and there is another bisexual woman in my class who has caught my eye. She is super cute, with the most adorable mannerisms. I thought she was cute at orientation, long before I found out that she was bi. I thought she was just another pretty straight girl, out of reach! We have similar career goals, which gives us a lot in common.

She and I have never talked one on one, just in large groups with our other classmates. I didn't think that I was that attracted to her, but a few nights ago I had a dream that she dropped out of the program and I was really sad, haha.

I am really awkward and have never been in a relationship, even though I am 23. I am very self-conscious about this. I really wonder if I am good enough for her, and if there is anything good that she could see in me.

I am thinking about trying to get to know her better as a friend. We have a month off for Christmas, and I think I might ask her to hang out. Do you think that this is a good idea, or will she think that I am creepy? I'm going to talk to my therapist about this, but I appreciate any input from you all.
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