Servo, thanks for posting on psych central. I am sorry you have so many issues in your life.
It is difficult when we are going through tough times to not accept lower opinions of ourselves the world may entertain. But people that I talk to say it does not help to try to criticize others. It only makes us hurt more.
If you take only the talk about yourself and what you are going through, the problems seem to me a little more manageable.
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My relationship with them: Mother, okay; Aunt, okay; brother, I don't really like him, rather not have him close, he's a low-end trash brother and we have a history together; Dad, I don't wanna see him but I have to, nor talk to him but I have to. We have history of course.
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So! what do we do about this? I don't think I want to have a relationship with many of these characters, not even my true brother and my dad, to my mother's plight.
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Oh and all the males in the family think I'm stupid and inferior.
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Steps to Better Self-Esteem - Forums at Psych Central
Other people have found Psych Central helpful in their healing process. A lot of helping ourselves is suspending judgment about others and stopping the blame game of blaming others for our problems. We are here to help YOU. We can't change your situation but you can change your outlook on your surroundings. A lot of healing starts with us. Others can point the way, but we have charge over our own lives.