I hate being touched in any way anything from someone shaking my hand to a family member trying to hug me. I've been like this for awhile my mom knows I'm upset and just tried to hug me I guess her attempt at making me feel better but anytime someone has the slightest physical contact with me my body tenses up and become stiff I always shrug away from it. I know this bothers my mom and grandmother my mom has broke down in tears from me pushing her away when she is trying to hug me. Its actually really hard for me to feel sympathy in a way for her when she knows I don't like Being touch and she still tries to hug me all the time it bothers me.