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bebop said:
ok a 50th is a very big deal but does not have to be expensive. all my hubbys siblings kind of did a huge cookout bring a dish for his parents. it was great! none of us had to spend alot of money on it either. it was all outdoors.

as far as the driving to virginia beach I say go if you can afford to go. your T is right! it will be very empowering for you! go for it beth! you will be glad you did!

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Hold your ground on the money and enjoy your vacation. You deserve it.