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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
I had a discussion with my T about it so it would be interesting to know your opinion.
Do you feel like hugs are something sexual with your T and with anyone else?
Is it possible to hug attractive person and not to feel it sexual?
Is it okay to hug with T if someone feels this way?
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It surely is going to depend on the dynamics between the people involved.
Hugs have never felt sexual with my therapist.
I hug other attractive people all the time, and it is not sexual.
But now I'm thinking about the reverse. There are a couple of people I can think of who are, to me, not attractive (not ugly or anything) who I really would not want to hug at all
Even if they are nice enough people. Something in me doesn't want to touch them. I think this might be a very primitive 'scent' thing, where they smell wrong to me or something? And I assume I might smell wrong to them to?
I have confused myself now...