Thank you all for your input and support.

I know in my heart not to report her boyfriend. I just feel so helpless and angry.

I don't know if I'm angrier at him or at her.

I have invited my sister over for dinner either today or tomorrow and am waiting on a reply.

I don't know what to talk to her about. Do we discuss her boyfriend? I'm just going to tell her I am there for her when she needs me.

But it seems she has been avoiding me since Thanksgiving (in which her boyfriend and I got into an argument). Just texting me here or there. I would have normally gone over there by now as I usually see her at least 2 times a week.

I am looking forward to the next Nar Anon meeting because that did help me a lot and I need to stay out of their relationship.

Nancy.