Which is why I do challenge some boundaries. My T used to only allow me to write 2 emails a week. I completely understand why. But she was constantly saying she trusted me. So I challenged the rule. I told her that she should trust me with how much I email and remove the limit. She agreed. Now she allows me to email as much as I want. But she knows that I am mindful of what and how much I should write. Some weeks I don't email. Most weeks I only email once or twice. I have a few times emailed more (up to 6 times). But she was okay with it because I actually needed it.

I respect all boundaries even if I don't like them or don't understand them. But I still can question them and challenge them even if they won't change.