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Originally Posted by mimsies
Maybe it wasn't about you, so much as her feeling that she was ineffective and couldn't do for you what you needed. And... if she felt so uncomfortable with letting you go at your own pace, maybe she isn't able to offer what is best for you. I don't know if that makes sense.
On the other hand, it is incredibly difficult to have to start over with new people, especially when being able to trust someone is so difficult. I can't help but wonder if her decision wasn't the best. Maybe she isn't accustomed to how long some people need to get to know and trust someone before being able to open up to them.
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Thanks Mimsies, it does make sense... I think I've finally... Mostly... Come to terms with the fact ht she is only a short term t... Tho I think that should of been disclosed and not lead me to believe I had her as long as I needed... Tho I suppose if I felt rushed I might not of been ready any faster. I saw my addictions councillor today.. I didn't realize you talk about so much more than addictions... But she helped me understand a lot too. My T would mostly of gotten people on the tail end of therapy, where I'm still a newby at it.. Those people are more ready to open up because they've already done it. My self sabatoge was my mind yelling me I wasn't ready.. I guess this all makes sense. Maybe this new t won't be so bad... Still miss my t... But maybe it wasn't meant to work out I guess.