I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I'm married with kids and have someone blackmailing me with a video that I don't want anyone seeing. He says that he'll keep it our secret if I give him blowjobs two to three times a week and let him have sex with me when he wants. I don't want anything like this to happen, I don't want my husband finding out, and I'm afraid to go to the cops. He has the video on his phone. Its 10 seconds long. Its of me going down on him because he claimed to still have nude pictures of me he was threatening to send them to my friends and family. After he got the video of me (which would have been longer if I wouldn't have caught him) he told me he didn't ever have anything till the video bc he deleted everything else. Is there any way that I can stop this without my husband finding out? I don't want this to ruin my marriage, I just want this over so my life can go back to normal. I'm already taking antidepressants and sleeping pills. I can't ever sleep and barely eat. My cycle is messed up from all the stress that I've been under. Please help me, I don't know what to do. I have no one else to turn to :'(