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Originally Posted by Nature1968
I am kind of surprised this site has a " THANKS "
For people who have a low self steam or other issues would cause a "trigger " when they see other people get them and they
don't .
Example ..
Someone post a question .. A bunch of people answer it and everyone got
a " THANKS " but me and it cause me a Trigger of how I am not good enough to be noticed , or to even get a " Thanks " , for taking the time to post on there thread .
It makes me feel unwanted , angry , left out and so on ..
Anyone else feel like this ?
It kind of makes me feel like not waiting to post because I didn't get a thanks for answering there post . I just don't see the point in having that ?
I understand the HUG but not the THANKS ?
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Originally Posted by Nature1968
I'm Glad to see I am not the only one .. it really stresses me out , I wish I was not so sensitive but I am .
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I think we've all felt something like this. In a way I suppose we should (almost) always thank people any time they respond to our posts. We all have some criteria I suppose that we use for hitting the thanks or hugs buttons. As far as third party thanks, I think it just means that the member has posted something we are in agreement with or that was particularly thoughtful
Try not to take it to heart.