Btw, I wanted to add that the fact that he can't penetrate you fully probably isn't the reason that you're not feeling anything during intercourse. 1) Intercourse alone often isn't that exciting for many women, and 2) most of the sensitive nerve endings of the vagina are at the entrance, so going deeper probably won't add that much in terms of stimulation.

I don't think that tons of sex for a week is particularly likely to solve the issue. It could even exacerbate it, given that you're not keen on the idea. I think you're searching for physical explanations when what's going on is probably psychological.

It may be, of course, that this really is a minor, temporary issue. It is very, very common for young women who are beginning to have sex to seem "tight." This usually just solves itself over time. And it's not because they need to get stretched out or whatever, it is just learning to relax and have more control over the muscles down there. And just plain getting used to it.

For what it's worth, I also used to think that everyone else must be faking pleasure, or buying into some mass delusion that sex is great. Some years, a different partner, some experimentation, and some therapy later, I have completely abandoned that belief.

I understand your frustration. A lot of your posts really, really resonate with me. But I just don't think there are any quick "fixes" here. There weren't for me, anyway. I know it sucks.