to be "judged" legally incompetent, your parents would have to get a lawyer, set up a hearing with a judge and proceed with proving it to the judge. at least that's how it works in the last state i lived in and it works that way here.

i agree with ems, if you can do what you do here........you aren't incompetent. your therapist needs to help you with this. and i really do believe that you can write out a list of the things that are going on and give it to the T. the T is YOUR advocate. not your parents. YOURS............good luck, xoxoxo pat