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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
Attachment feelings/some sort of maternal transference generally starts when I'm vulnerable with people. A) it's just plain scary and B) it drives people away when you're too needy. It happened with my former T and pretty much everyone I've ever gotten close to in life. And it's just embarrassing too...I mean, I'm 19 now, and acting like I'm 5 is just unbecoming.
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I'm 40 and I had huge attachment to my T, I think it is something that often comes with therapy. I am not bothered by it at all. I felt that she was the mother I never had, I think it was healthy and a positive thing.