I too hate hate hate that needing someone feeling too. It is something that all my life I have avoided at ALL costs. I am now, after a year and a half, incredibly attached to my t. I tried to run and leave therapy as it made me feel weak & pathetic, but now, I really embrace the feeling and enjoy feeling that way when I am with him for those two precious sessions twice a week. I have however, spoken a lot about the attachment. He makes me feel it is normal & natural, so that has helped me deal with it. I also have transference (paternal dad) and absolutely adore him. I even text Hi dad to him. Just go with the feeling and vulnerbility, because it will help you to heal.