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Originally Posted by Brown Owl
I'm 40 and I had huge attachment to my T, I think it is something that often comes with therapy. I am not bothered by it at all. I felt that she was the mother I never had, I think it was healthy and a positive thing.
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I, too, am 40 and quite attached to my T. I don't like to accept it though because the attachment hurts. She may be somewhat satisfying a need.... but not in my RL. She's my T. She's not a mother or a friend.... and that's the part that hurts. Because I think she's probably quite loving and fun in both roles. She talks about her daughter a lot.... and my pathetic 40 year old brain almost wishes I could trade places. Pathetic.