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If my friend truly does not see a future or feel love for this person or hope for the future - I would tell my friend to leave because neither side should be held hostage to a relationship. I would not want someone to hold on to me with those thoughts...
on the other hand if the relationship is clearly not healthy your friend should leave for their own sake.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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