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Old Dec 04, 2014, 10:23 AM
Phantom129 Phantom129 is offline
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Originally Posted by ToeJam View Post
What is 'attractive' does change as you get a few years under your belt. Attraction comes in many forms that do seem to expand as we get older. I didn't have a real relationship of any kind till I was 21 and then they just seemed to fall into place.

As for being friends with girls/interacting... Just be normal. I personally think that once I stopped caring whether or not I'd get a girlfriend and was just myself around others without any thoughts of relationships... I suddenly (well, slowly as I was blind to it at first) became attractive... Was ironic.
I appreciate the advice but I do act pretty normal and I get nothing. I wish I at least had some friends that were girls but I don't. I don't even know how to interact with girls on a friendly level because I'm really used to only having male friends. What really gets me down is that I will be graduating in a few months and after that, my window to have a girlfriend or have female friends will get even smaller because I'm not planning on going to college and I'm not old enough to go to clubs or anything so I'll pretty much have no way to meet girls.